unbelievable

Can you believe that a big mall like TCM and the toilets forever dirty and smells like the corner bar toilet? This is so ridiculous and to make matters  worst every time rain falls there is a leak. What these people doing with all the rent money they getting? I was running up and down today trying to find a loo to relive myself of the 2 bottles of water that I ingested... I am not kindling when I say thank goodness for panty shields....

Old Children or young adults

When I took a pregnancy test 20 years ago and found out I was pregnant I was modified, Every single thing that my mother had said would happen if you let boys kiss you was now becoming a reality, the fear of being a mother or even the though of cleaning poop or  vomit was a nightmare.....  Thankfully the moment you hold your baby in your arms, all the love rushes through you and the urge to do all in your power to protect them and care for them is now the norm, Pride and Joy is now the order of the day and everything seems so more tolerable, your boss, your parents because nothing but that beautiful baby matters and giving him/her everything that they may or may not deserve is your number one priority...... You work extra to keep a continuous income, you keep up with the latest  trend and by this I mean ... Cartoons,... Frozen, Max steel, Sophia The first and the list can go on.... School projects that requires perhaps and army to get it done but with Gods help you manage and then they grow up or so they would like to think... Clean your room, do your home work, brush your teeth, sit properly, don't speak like that, what kinda music you listening too?, Where did you meet this friend? where is the rest of your outfit?  come off the phone and go to bed,wake up its time to go! it seem like we talk more, stress more and even DO more when kids get older?

Where did we go wrong? Didn't we do all what we set out to do? didn't we give our kids the things we never had, didn't we relive them of the daunting chores that we had when we were kids..... So what went wrong? Many scholars (Grandparents)   would argue that we have spared the rod and spoiled the child. Perhaps what we didn't have or what we had to do (chores) is what made us better.

Things to say to your child

What you say to your child is important. Here are some tips I fount that I had to share

Your relationship with your kid will change forever once you can genuinely say these things: https://t.co/d2V9pRmAUm pic.twitter.com/zPTzzTPM7c

— Parenting.com (@parenting) April 21, 2016

My Earbells Hurts!!

I am of the opinion that the music selection in some taxis is just down right ridiculous. Why must I be subjected to music which is down right suggestive, insulting and most importantly inappropriate. Then my next question would be why is it so loud and my following question would be; is the police man def?

Recently I had the unpleasant experience while travelling in a taxi from Trinity Mall, and in my less than  8 minutes drive I felt violated ... That is my ears .... as it was subjected to the sounds of this generation. Firstly I could not understand what was the moral of the song, the lyrics was less than desirable as it ranted on about a girl that was call Tiffany which the composer insisted should be call " Heffany" and that he would NOT want to be her friend and that he would " hit it but not call it" NOW....

My last question would be..... why do we expect our youths to behave or respect people when we are not ensuring that the environment is conducive to healthy productive human beings. If I am not mistaken at least 20 years ago loud , suggestive music was not allowed in public transport... At least when I was going to school.

Married Life

Now people lets be honest... How many people still love their spouse as much as they did on  their wedding day?...

Now don't get me wrong... but.... I though I couldn't be surprise by anything in my marriage  after all we have been together for more that 15 years before even getting married... What could he possibly do to surprise me?... He forgets, he is late and then thinks its my fault, he always ask " do you need help and then ask a million questions on how to help" he nods his head like he is listening ... but he doesn't hear a word I say.... So all of these things I know so what? What can surprise me???

I tell you what... Married life has surprised me as I never look at how much my husband do to make my world go around... and even if it might not be the physical things that we so much desire, its the things which we really need like hugs, kisses, the reassurance that your food is delicious even when its not, its the nights when they stay up listing to all your troubles and pretend to care whats happening in your lunch room at work or its the way he forgive you for not keeping the house spic and spank by helping out... and the list can go on and I am sure we all envision a marriage full of fun and excitement only to find that its much more than that... Its about true love the kind that loves you when you don't look or feel your best, the kind that loves you still even if the food is burn, the kind of love you can feel when the day is done and his kiss good night tells you tomorrow will be better. The kind of love you have even when there is no reaanee!! at least for two months.