Now don't get me wrong... but.... I though I couldn't be surprise by anything in my marriage after all we have been together for more that 15 years before even getting married... What could he possibly do to surprise me?... He forgets, he is late and then thinks its my fault, he always ask " do you need help and then ask a million questions on how to help" he nods his head like he is listening ... but he doesn't hear a word I say.... So all of these things I know so what? What can surprise me???
I tell you what... Married life has surprised me as I never look at how much my husband do to make my world go around... and even if it might not be the physical things that we so much desire, its the things which we really need like hugs, kisses, the reassurance that your food is delicious even when its not, its the nights when they stay up listing to all your troubles and pretend to care whats happening in your lunch room at work or its the way he forgive you for not keeping the house spic and spank by helping out... and the list can go on and I am sure we all envision a marriage full of fun and excitement only to find that its much more than that... Its about true love the kind that loves you when you don't look or feel your best, the kind that loves you still even if the food is burn, the kind of love you can feel when the day is done and his kiss good night tells you tomorrow will be better. The kind of love you have even when there is no reaanee!! at least for two months.
One thing I always remember when I was married, live & love like its the first time you fell in love.
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